此Philippines婦女擔心家庭經濟來源
Hi,
I need help reading my Bazi and my husbands'. We have been under constant and consistent money loss for almost 3 years now. It's putting a strain on our marriage. It doesn't help that we have 2 1/2 yr old daughter now whom we can barely provide for her needs.
I was born on April 10, 1973, an Ox, at 2:30 pm, hour of the Sheep at Manila, Philippines. As I understand, Ox and Sheep are not exactly the best of friends, in fact, they are on the opposite sides. I am worried that things would get worst for me because next year will be the year of the Sheep.
My husband is a rabbit and was born on November 28, 1975, at 11:43 am, Philippines.
Please, we need help on how to strengthen our elements and how we can survive next year. I stoppe working to take care of our baby when she was born. My husband works at the hospital.
Thanks much in advance!
12/30/2014 1:51:22 AM
兩個盤都好糟糕。。是否在2010流年結婚?
Thank you for replying. I was losing hope that anyone would take notice of my plea. Is there anything I can do to lessen this? We don't really spend much unless it's necessary. But we got into heavy debt because we decided to help each of our families, which we now realize was more than we could afford. It was ok then because we didn't have a child to support. But now that we do, life has become difficult. And sometimes when you're in a difficult situation, you couldn't think straight. I was thinking maybe feng shui would help me. I say me, because my husband doesn't think much about feng shui. So I'm kind a alone on this. If we didn't have a little girl I wouldn't worry so much.
果然是有夫妻命，大家一起行衰運。。。合十
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[女命/乙未時]=======
[1] 身弱喜木火。印劫。不忌水。
[2] 夫宮得位本主吉。奈何被食傷左右㚒剋。主婚姻波動，容易分離。官星得為，夫管妻。
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[現行2011大還/庚申/合才生才]
[1] 天干丙比(錢，健康) 被才官聯手回剋。主錢財被耗。自身建康受損。幸好地支忌生忌，無戰，只主運程暗滯。
[1a]2014流年，財來即破
[1b]2015流年，捉襟見肘
[1c]2016流年,2017流年-沒有改善
[1d]2018流年, 2019流年，財政稍為穩定
[1e]2020流年，貧
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[男命/壬年時]=======
[1] 身旺喜火土。食財
[2] 堅持己見，原則性強，大男人。重視朋友兄弟勝於妻
[運程]=======
和以上 妻的[1a] – [1e] 一模一樣 [1]2016-2017職湯受挫。多口舌，是非。2020流年，官非/離職/分手。
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[夫妻命盤同參]=======
[1] 大家有共通喜神火。火在女命=錢，男命=才智
[2] 建議在南方安放紅色擺設
[3] 身邊帶有紅色的飾物
非常感謝兔兔師姐詳細的答复
:-)
see below for more feedback from this woman:
Dear sam insanity,
Hi! You're reply is so much appreciated! It's nice to hear that next year will be better. I have some questions, though, pardon my ignorance.
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Does having a weak bazi mean you also have a weak personality?
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If wood and fire are my favorable elements, I should find a career that is related to either element?
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What element does a lotto betting station belong to? Is that a good business for us? Or should we find something else?
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As I can see, my husband and I share one favorable element and that is fire. My husband have always dreamt of owning a bakery. Does a bakery belong to the fire element?
Yes, you are right, my family was well off when I was born. I am an only child that's why we're still living with my parents. My dad retired when I was 37 so I guess that's when it went downhill for us because instead of just earning for us, my husband had to support my parents as well. My work is part time only, as project contractual. And that's not easy because my dad's lifestyle is far from simple. Whatever he got out of retirement he paid off my mother's debt. Up until now, with his monthly pension. I am still in awe that he has not left her yet. But that's an entirely different story. I am just telling you so you'll get the picture of how my mom's debt has affected everyone.
In year 2011, August, to be exact, I won a small amount in the lottery. One number and I would have hit the jackpot. So we decided to put up a lotto betting station. And that same year, just 2 months apart from winning, I got pregnant with our 2nd child, the first one was miscarried. Our capital was slowly being eaten away by the needs of the family, his and mine, as well as the expenses of pregnancy, childbirth, and actually having a baby. So, to compensate, my husband had to file loans, one on top of the other. It was a bad start. And now we still feel the pain of the consequences from years past. Business isn't good enough either. The earnings wasn't what we were told and expected. But somehow, because of that, we are able to manage. I don't mind tightening the belt but it's hard when there is a child involved. It pains me that I can't give her the same life I was given when I was a child. I feel like a failure.
So, aside from improving myself, I would like to know what else I could possibly do to give us a breakthrough. I've never been confident about myself or what I could do. Sometimes I think it's because of how I was brought up. But I really don't like to dwell on that anymore unless it is to understand myself better. I couldn't really focus on what to do because at this point , I feel as if I couldn't risk or can't afford to take chances anymore .
By the way, I think he's the one doing the bullying. He's the nagger and constantly at my back for not being perfect, always finding fault, constantly wanting to change me, not accepting me for who I am. I think we bring out the worst in each other. In our situation now, if not for our little one, we would probably have separated.
I think I've written a few chapters of my life already. Thanks for your time. Highly appreciated !
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